One of the 13 Tools on your Possibilitator's Energetic Toolbelt is a Purpose Sniffer, a simple device for detecting Purpose. It is very precise. Aim is at any thought, word, or deed (yours or others') and it tells you within several decimal points of accuracy what the purpose is.
Unconscious declarations serve unconscious purposes, also known as Shadow Principles, and therefore create Gremlin Feeding Frenzies.
Even if the answer might be scary, might be unimaginable to imagine, might offend people, you keep your Sword Of Clarity out, your Grounding Cord locked to the center of Gaia, Your Attention full on... you breathe, you ask, and you listen, with all 5 Body ears.
On one hand, question-asking is an art-form. You can navigate what is possible by asking questions the answers to which do not exist in the current space.
On another hand, what are you doing with the information you get when your questions are answered? Do you document your path so others can make use of your good fortune?
Possibility Management is that kind of treasure that grows by giving it away. How proficient are you at giving away valuable treasure? How could you improve that?
When you wrestle with a question it changes your shape. You become the question you wrestle with. The Universe responds to your new shape. But when a question gets answered, the answer kills the question. Your Quest suddenly changes into finding your next good question to wrestle with.
Self-invocation is a skill that can be trained. Then the Universe becomes the Trainer Trainer.